
We all show up in our relationships with patterns, some we’re aware of, and others that run silently in the background.
Maybe you’re the peacekeeper, the over-giver, the fixer…
This 2-minute quiz will help you uncover the role you play to feel loved, needed, or safe — even if it’s costing you your energy, boundaries, or self-expression.
You second-guess yourself constantly, afraid of upsetting others.
You crave deep connection, but often feel misunderstood or alone.
You’re exhausted from being “the strong one” all the time.
You want more from your relationships — but don’t know how to ask without guilt.
You put everyone else’s needs first — and feel resentful or invisible because of it.
When you understand the unconscious role you’re playing, you can stop performing — and start connecting as your full, authentic self.
Take the quiz and discover how to:
Name the pattern you’re stuck in
Understand what’s driving it
Begin shifting into healthier, more fulfilling relationships


Cheryne Blom is a Master Coach, Author of The Courage to Be You, podcast host, and thought leader who’s passionate about guiding others toward a life of Calm, Clarity, and Confident Courage.
Drawing on her own transformative life experiences, Cheryne helps individuals shed outdated patterns, uncover their true selves, and align their lives with what truly makes them happy and fulfilled.
We are here to discover the essence of who we are and our authentic purpose. By releasing what no longer serves us, we can redesign our lives with clarity and joy.
